FAQS

Your Questions Answered

  • What services do funeral directors perform?

    A funeral director offers comprehensive support to grieving families after the loss of a loved one. Beyond coordinating cremation, burial, and memorial services for the deceased, they provide essential bereavement and consolation to the living. Their multifaceted role encompasses funeral arranging, directing, attending, and embalming.


    Key responsibilities of a funeral director include:


    • Arranging for the deceased's removal and transfer from the place of death to the funeral home.
    • Providing professional care for the deceased, such as embalming, casketing, and cosmetology.
    • Meeting with the family to plan the funeral service.
    • Completing necessary paperwork, including certificates and permits.
    • Acquiring copies of the death certificate.
    • Coordinating with cemeteries, crematories, or other final disposition locations.
    • Writing and publishing the obituary.
    • Organizing aspects of the service like clergy, music, flowers, transportation, pallbearers, and specialized fraternal or military tributes.
    • Overseeing the funeral service and procession.
    • Aiding the family with death-related claims and resources, such as Social Security, VA benefits, and grief support.
  • Why are funerals so expensive?

    A traditional funeral involves a number of services which add to the total cost. Besides a non-declinable basic services fee, other charges may include removal/transfer of the body to the funeral home; embalming; other preparation of the body; use of facilities and staff for viewing; use of facilities and staff for the funeral ceremony; use of a hearse, service car, or van; a basic memorial printed package; metal casket, a vault or grave liner, and purchase of a cemetery plot.

  • What is the purpose of a funeral?

    A funeral or memorial service provides an opportunity for the living to show respect for the deceased and pay tribute to their life. It provides a framework to freely and openly express our beliefs, feelings, and thoughts about the death of our loved one. It gives us permission to grieve our loss, share in solidarity, and gain strength from others who are experiencing the same loss.

  • What are the choices for funeral services?

    The four main types of funeral services include the traditional funeral service, the memorial service, the committal service, and the affirmation or celebration of life service.

  • Can you still have a funeral if you choose cremation?

    Yes, cremation or burial is merely the disposition of the body. Funeral services are to honor and remember your loved one, regardless of disposition.

  • Can I plan in advance if I choose cremation?

    Pre-arranging funeral services can be done regardless of the final disposition. Pre-arranging is simply recording your wishes with the funeral home and prefunding if you choose to do so.

  • What information should I bring to the arrangement conference?

    • Advance Directives If the deceased left any written advance directives concerning the disposition of his remains and memorialization you need to bring them with you These instructions may be found in a will or there may be a formally witnessed disposition directive funeral prearrangements or a preneed contract
    • Military Discharge Papers
    • Details on any cemetery property owned by the deceased or the family grave plot columbarium space etc
    • Recent photograph of the deceased and any personal effects that you wish to be included in the viewing or burial
    • Specific information on the deceased
    • Full legal name
    • Address
    • Marital status
    • Social Security number
    • Date of birth
    • Place of birth city and state
    • Educational history number of years of schooling
    • Armed Forces service dates and serial number
    • Occupation or profession
    • Parents names including mothers maiden name
    • Next of kin and other survivors